I love you; it’s ruining my life.
Have you ever felt so deeply in love that you destroyed your own life? People frequently state they “fall in love moderately and naturally.”
The definition of falling in love enough is that we sometimes can’t control it; losing our minds is common when we fall in love, especially when we fall in love in a relationship where we have high hopes and expectations of our partner from the start. Sometimes we want to give plain and regular love, but it might be so much that we end up hurting our own lives.
What if falling in love makes your life a mess? Let’s start by figuring out what kind of mess is intended. Is it a mess that cannot be rearranged, a mess that can still be mended, or perhaps a mess that isn’t all that messy?
I’m increasingly convinced that loving calmly and simply is the way to go, because I once loved someone so much that it drove my life insane. My life was no longer orderly; even my friends couldn’t recognize me since I was such a different person than before, and I recognized I had changed when I loved someone so much that I ended up wrecking my own life.
I gradually began to restore order to my disorderly life. I was insane once, but I also remember how to get home. It’s difficult to organize and tidy up individually after everything has fallen apart. I’m slowly attempting to rediscover myself after the craziness I caused. I may be a different person now, more outspoken, and even more disrespectful as a result of my previous lunacy.
Wounds can cause people to become more silent, and I sadly felt rude.